It’s wedding season and there is nothing more exciting than being asked to be part of someone’s special day. Of course, bridesmaids dresses are notorious for being less than flattering and despite everyone insisting that you’ll wear them again, you most likely will not end up doing so. One bridal trend I’m totally behind is picking a color or a color palette for your bridesmaids and allowing them to choose their own dress in that shade. At the end of the day you want to avoid anything that’s too revealing or distracting, but I have noticed some bridesmaids lines creating a range of dresses specifically for this person. With several weddings to attend over the next year, I have my eyes set on bridesmaids dresses by Amsale. I’m wearing the Bray dress in fawn and I can actually see myself wearing this dress again!
Listening to my friends as they plan their weddings also made me realize how important it is to not only be a well dressed guest, but also a well behaved guest! Wedding planning is stressful and not for the faint of heart, anything you can do to minimize added stress and make the day as smooth as possible will be appreciated.
Some simple etiquette tips to follow:
+ Be responsive! When the bride asks for your address, get back to her quickly. When you receive the formal invitation in the mail, RSVP. The last thing a frazzled bride wants to do is chase down her guests.
+ Don’t expect a +1. Weddings are expensive and different couples may have different viewpoints on allowing guests. As a guest, you cannot expect to be given a +1 simply because you were invited.
+ Read the invite carefully and follow the dress code. This is usually made clear on the wedding invite or website. When in doubt, err on the side of caution! If you aren’t sure if your attire choice is right, then go with a safer bet.
+ Be on time! This goes without saying.
+ Buy a gift early. This way you won’t forget, and you’ll have a better selection from the wedding registry. Lately I have been buying my gifts from Zola – they have tons of amazing gift options for any couple in your life (including experiences and cash funds). Think outside of the box gifts for the couples you love. I’ve also partnered with Zola to give you $50 credit towards your registry when you spend $500 or more. Click here to learn more!