Adjusting to Change and How to Find a New Routine

Happy Monday! It’s been a crazy few months to say the least… I’ve taken a step away from blogging and posting to focus on other changes in my life. If it seems like I’ve been distracted and my mind has been elsewhere, it’s because it has been! I started a new job at the end of June and then took a much needed vacation in July (still have so many blog posts I need to share from the trip). Now that I’m back, I’ve been mostly focusing on work and finding a new routine. Change can be scary, but it doesn’t have to be! I’m a firm believer that change is a positive thing, and you can only grow and get better by pushing yourself. As much as I love blogging and the opportunities it’s given me, I’ve always remained focused on my career. Of course, juggling both has its pros and cons. As I’ve been adjusting to changes in my life (hello, new commute!), I’ve been working on finding a new routine as well. Here’s some of the best advice I’ve received.

Adjusting to change & finding a new routine

+ Don’t be so hard on yourself.

It takes time to adjust to change! Your body and mind are in shock and trying to adjust – it usually takes at least a few months to get into a new groove. If you’re starting a new job, going to school, or moving to a new city, big changes take a lot of time to get used to. Your daily routine will be different – and that’s ok!

+ Make time for yourself.

If you’re feeling stressed (or even thriving on change!), it’s easy to forget to take care of yourself when you’re going through a whirlwind of events. It’s ok to stop and make time for yourself – even if it’s something small. Lately I’ve been gravitating towards very restorative yoga classes (think: not heated, not intense at all – just long, deep stretches to relax the mind) as a way to unwind and take care of myself. If you’re into massages, or maybe a little retail therapy, that’s ok – treat yourself!

+ Learn to say no.

In the same vein, it’s ok to say no every now and then while you adjust to change. Before you know it, you’ll be in a groove again and ready to jump back into the swing of things! On that note, I’m learning how to balance my new job with my personal life and the blog. : )

Also, you can now shop my looks on Foray! I am loving this new shop-by-influencer platform that features so many of my favorite brands. Full outfit details are below.

How do you adjust to change in your life?

swimsuit: tularosa (sold out, similar) | shorts: re/done | belt: b-low the belt  sunglasses: similar | shoes: steve madden